how to get my parents to adopt/rescue a dog, rather than just buy one?
Posted by: Alan in bone cancer in dogs treatment, tags: adopt/rescue, just, parents, rather, than
well, we lost our beloved golden retriever to bone marrow cancer about a month ago. we know its too soon to be looking for a new dog, but me and my dad miss having a dog to sit around with and play with. we would never “replace” him, but we are looking at dogs, but not to buy at this moment. my dad likes pure bred dogs, preferably the vizsla. i absolutely love vizlas, but he says they are too expensive to buy. and usually, the younger they are, the most expensive they are. yet, he wants a puppy. hes really confusing. but for quite a number of years, ive wanted to adopt/rescue a dog. it makes me incredibly sad to see dogs that have been through so much, and need a loving home, yet they get euthanized because of space shortages in shelters. i would do anything to be able to help out a dog in need. and most adoption fees are $50 to $100 where i live. and i found a dog with an amazing story, but my dad doesnt like the fact that he is mixed between a vizsla and a labrador. the dog was beaten and abandoned at just 4 months of age, and he weighs just 25 lbs. my sister on the other hand doesnt want to adopt either because the dog cowers due to being beaten and id hate to see a sweet, innocent dog like him get euthanized. even if i just adopt one dog, its making a difference.. what can i do to show them that rescuing a dog is so much better?
sorry, ive failed to mention that the vizsla dog im looking in to, is a sort of rare breed where i live. ive looked everywhere for a pure bred vizsla puppy, and i cant seem to find one.
also, i feel that my home is the right home too. whatever we get, everyone will be happy with or we wouldnt havent got the dog at all. we treat animals like people in my home. with love and respect. animals deserve a second chance at life too, after all, many people have gotten second chances, so do animals..
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April 29th, 2010 at 2:31 am
Your family is not happy with the particular dog you found…
Look around, find a Vizsla pup for adoption that you think the family will like, they may be more convinced if you can find something that everyone likes.
You have to remember too, there is a fine line between placing a dog in “any” home and placing a dog in the right home.. a shy abused dog may not be the best for your family either.
April 29th, 2010 at 3:25 am
Try a rescue group for that breed. They are saved and he gets a pureblood.
April 29th, 2010 at 4:17 am
Rescuing a dog is not better by any stretch of the imagination.
Just because you want to get some cast off dog, does not mean this is the best thing for your family.
Dogs that are dumped at shelters have ISSUES.
Your family deserves to get a purebred dog from a reputable breeder. Someone who cares about the breed, has done health testing, etc.
Mixed breed= mixed bag you have no idea what you are getting.
Get a purebred Viszla you know what to expect.
Your father has the right idea. Parents usually do
When you are an adult you can make your own decisions/mistakes.
If you want to go help shelter dogs then go volunteer your time to work at a shelter. That way you can help a lot of dogs.
April 29th, 2010 at 4:26 am
Unfortunately, that sweet and innocent dog probably has aggression issues because he was beaten. You do not want to adopt a dog that cowers from you. When most people adopt an aggressive dog from a shelter, the dog ends up getting returned to the shelter and rehomed time and again. This not only aggravates the problem, but it reduces the chance that a non-aggressive dog will be adopted.
There are plenty of sweet and innocent, funloving, pure-bred dogs in shelters due to the surplus of “back-yard breeders.” They may not have papers, but I am assuming that if you are looking to adopt from a shelter you are not looking to breed or show your dog anyway.
April 29th, 2010 at 4:42 am
Take your family to visit a rescue shelter. That way you and your family can “meet and greet” with the animals that are up for adoption. If you find one you all can agree on, good. If not, visit a different shelter or visit again a month later. It’s really important that you get to interact with the dog as a family.
April 29th, 2010 at 5:08 am
What more important is
Number 1; Adopting the right breed for your family.
Number 2; Saving a dog life
Myth: Shelter pets are obviously not good pets, or else their original owners wouldn’t have gotten rid of them
If the main reason why a pet gets brought to rescue shelters was because they were a *bad* pet, there would be thousands of empty shelters across the country. Animals are brought to shelters for a large variety of reasons, some of which are…
•Their owners have passed away
•An irresponsible owner didn’t get their pets spayed or neutered so they found themselves with a litter of babies that they could not keep or did not want
•The animal’s owners were abusive to the animal, so the authorities have removed the pet from the harmful environment
•An animal was purchased or adopted by someone who did not take into consideration all of the responsibility that caring for that pet would entail. A good example of this would be someone who adopts a pet in an apartment complex that does not allow animals and then is subsequently forced to get rid of the pet.
Myth: Animals from abusive homes will never be good pets because they have been mistreated for so long
Most animals coming from abusive homes will typically make a full emotional recovery – with proper care and attention. In fact, many of them are so grateful to be rescued from their previous situation, they end up being more devoted and loyal than animals coming from non-abusive homes.
Myth: You never know what you’re getting with shelter pets
Although its true that the medical history and temperament of an animal adopted from a rescue shelter are not always able to be tracked down, its really no different than an animal you might get from a pet store, unless you are buying a pedigree.
Myth: All animals in rescue shelters are sickly or unhealthy
Once again, it certainly IS possible that a pet adopted from a rescue shelter may have medical problems, however the majority of the animals that are adopted from shelters are perfectly healthy, and just need a good home. If anything, you’re more likely to get an honest answer about an animal’s medical problems from a shelter volunteer – who is clearly there because they *care* about the animals – as opposed to a pet store owner or breeder that is only it in for the money. Additionally, animals in shelters are typically treated much better than animals in pet stores, which have often spent their short lives in cramped environments with little socializing and often, unsanitary conditions.
To illustrate the point a little more clearly, when you go to a pet store, the animals are kept on display in tiny cages, often with multiple animals in one cage. When you go to a shelter, you will usually find much bigger animal pens, where the animals have some room to
That Cute Puppy Requires Work
Watching a puppy grow can be a rewarding experience, and is often compared to the time requirements of raising a human baby. And just like a baby, you won’t discover the dogs’ true personality until it is nearing adulthood.
Young puppies require large amounts of time; needing to be fed 3-4 times a day, kept in a confined area indoors and let out every few hours to eliminate. The first few weeks can be filled with sleepless nights as the confused puppy seeks comfort and food. A puppy’s growth phase requires much supervision and training. Housetraining is accomplished only after accidents. Teething (”chewing”) lasts the first six-eight months. And puppies don’t become mature adults until they are two years old, meaning they act like teenage dogs for a year or more.
If everyone in your home is gone for eight hours a day, your puppy probably won’t get the attention he needs to meet your expectations. If you are gone much longer than eight hours a day, even adult dogs have high attention needs and may not be a good choice for your current lifestyle.
Adult Dogs Have Many Advantages
Most dogs given to shelters are young adolescents. They don’t usually have behavior problems, they were just victims of well-meaning owners who didn’t have the time, knowledge or patience for the needs of a dog.
While many shelter dogs could use a little more training, they usually bond quickly with new owners, and have fewer needs than a young puppy.
Many shelter dogs are already housetrained, though they often need some reminders and a few days of adjustment time after their stay at a shelter kennel. Even if they were sadly kept outdoors only, adult dogs often only need a day or two to learn that they live inside, but eliminate outside.
Many shelter dogs have already lived with children. People often assume that they should start with a puppy if they have children. Puppies have sharp baby teeth and can play too roughly with young children. There are many adult dogs in the shelter that are recommended for households with children. And, teaching children about the moral benefits of saving the dog life.
April 29th, 2010 at 5:09 am
try telling them that there are thousands of dogs every day that end up in shelters and that you want to help at least one by giving them a good home. so what if it is not purebred! that does not mean that it will act any different from any other dog! isnt the point of buying a dog is to love it and act like best friends? oh and buy the way sorry about your loss!