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Question by Jifferson Van MacScottright: How can I kick my sister out of my Mom’s house in Texas?
My mother had a stroke two years ago. My wife, daughter, and I were living there for about two weeks before her stroke because we moved out of the house we were living in abruptly and needed somewhere to stay temporarily. A few weeks after my mom’s stroke, my older sister (45 yrs) wanted to move in the house. She had been wanting to live there for a while but my mom wouldn’t let her come live with her for various reasons. She had lived with her before but moved out so she could have privacy with her husband. So now, I’m not able to buy a house and I want to live at my mom’s house so I can save to buy my own house. I would actually like to live there and make the house a home for my wife and daughter. I wouldn’t have moved out if my sister wouldn’t have brought her dog and cat over to my mom’s house. My daughter has sever allergies to cats and dogs. She actually developed asthma symptoms while we were living there with my sister for the six month time period. My sister also didn’t get along with my wife and they would argue and maintain a constant level of tension keeping me in the middle. My sister has a drinking problem and has friends over that are ex cons or crack heads or former crack heads and I didn’t want them around my family. So we moved out and my sister got rid of most of my mom’s furniture and other belongings, and put a lot of her personal pictures etc in the attic for storage. She basically moved her stuff in and made the house her own. She pays on the loan and taxes, which is only about 30k on a 300k property that my family had purchased back in the 60s. Once that loan is paid off, the house will be own free and clear except for the debt for my mother’s care. My mom is currently living in a nursing home using Medicare and Medicaid. Texas has a program where they can reclaim the cost of Medicaid expenses when my mother dies. There are some exceptions such as an unmarried child living at the home. My sister is legally married, but separated from her husband. Her husband left her for another woman that he got pregnant. She is staying on his insurance because she has had two episodes of lymphoma and needed chemotherapy treatments. So I’m in a situation where my sister doesn’t want me to live with her because of my wife and I don’t want to live with her because of her life style and we both want to live at my mom’s house because it is low cost living in a nice place. What can I do?

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Answer by Piggiepants
Sell the house, split the proceeds (after paying for Mom’s care).

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my sister is driving me crazy. i’ve always been really skinny my whole life.

now i’m skinner because i have a medical condition that makes it extremely hard me to gain weight. i’m always in a battle to gain weight. she has a MAJOR issue w this. she knows i’ve been to the doc over 20 times from last year…. three specialist… and even got endoscopy and colonscopy to see if i have cancer (which i didnt)

yet. she sympathizes w me in private…. in public, she’ll mortify me by saying things like “i can see your chest bones, eat more… you better fatten up before my wedding”…. and she even got mad at me for emailing the bridesmaids because i said nordstrom didnt have my size so i need tailoring( i didnt even mention the size number , only that they didnt have my size)…. and took me off the braidsmaids’ email list…
she’s always comparing schools (she went to the best, i went to average), and our pets (always asking everyone which dog is cuter), and our spouses….
I tried sooooo much to have a breakthru in our relationship because she harbors soooo much resentment towards me.

when we were teenagers, she used to make me write a food journal everyday and force feed me. i had to always eat anything she offered in public, because she’s call me anorexic and bulimic in front of all my friends /her friends etc… she confessed 10yrs later that she did that because she had an eating disorder.

she has a habit of asking people who looks younger (because she looks younger even tho she’s older) EVERY time we meet new people. she once asked SEVEN WHOLE times in her friend’s house party.

I think she has nothing to be jealous about bc she’s soooo way more successful than me, i think she’s way more prettier, and she’s someone i always looked upto as a kid. i’m just stating the facts here. She has a hourglass figure (big boobs, tiny waist, big bust… i’m like a boy figure w like nonexistent boobs ), she’s really successful in her career, i’m still in school…..She’s been asked to model and be in music videos while just walking around , i’ve never been asked that my whole life… yet she’s the one who acts jealous and i’m the one who has to limit good events in my life to her so that she wont get jealous…Since we were younger, she had to get more clothes when we shopped, i had to get the same haircut if she didnt like her haircut, and she had to get everything newer /better or else she threw these tantrums…. so my parents obliged and i never really minded since this is been my entire life….
I’ve always been a sickly child (i looked like i was in first grade when i was in fifth grades) and my parents always had to take care of me. I was never allowed to go to slumber parties and long termed trips because they were afraid that i would get sick. (this did not apply for my sister since she was very healthy). and til this day, she’s always mentioning how our parents love me more… but it was because i was always sick and i had no control over it….

she’s gotten better at the tantrums she throws at me since she started therapy 5 yrs ago, but it comes back and it’s a vicious cycle.

i love her so much but this is too much. when she got engaged, she called everyone else, ignored my voicemails, even called my bestfriend (they’re not even close), and told the whole facebook community before she called me to tell me of her engagement. it’s really funny and sad to me because i would’ve called her FIRST if i got engaged….

as i’m approaching my 30s, i feel that her hatred towards me will never cease and it will be better if i just severed our relationship….

what do you think?